Please pray fervently for Valerie. I just talked to her and she is bad. She is so depressed, so desperate that she doesn't want to talk to anybody, she didn't go to work today because she said she couldn't stand to be around anybody...I don't know what to do. She is a dear,close friend and I love her dearly. I can't stand to see her or anybody else for that matter in this kind of dispair.....I don't know what to do. She is about to loose everything she has and she has tried so very hard to keep things going and bills paid since her husband died but she is drowning...It seems like she has given up.I don't know of any way or anybody who can help her. She has talked with all of her immediate family on her side and they don't even offer to help, not even money for food in which she has none. On her husband's side, they won't even talk to her. I feel so helpless not being able to help her..You know, all her troubles makes me feel so ridiculous, makes my problems seem so trivial...Just pray